By David Joel Miller, MS, Licensed Therapist & Licensed Counselor.
Build a successes machine, turn the crank and out comes another goal accomplished.
How do successful people do it?
Ever meet one of those people who are able to accomplish most anything they set their mind to? They are able to reproduce their successes project after project. I am not talking about the Bill Gates and Steve Jobs; knock one out of the park kinds of success. For that, you need not only ability, but a great idea and some good timing helps.
What I am talking about is that person who is more successful than most. They are the people in the next cubicle or down the block who seem to get a lot done, accomplish their life goals and manage to be happy doing it. How do those people do it?
They have built a success machine and they are able to repeat those accomplishments over and over. Want to know how to build yourself a success machine? Here is how you train yourself to improve the odds that your next effort will work out the way you wanted it to.
1. Doing your homework increases success.
People who repeatedly accomplish things don’t go off half-cocked. They have done their homework and know which things have a chance of working and which don’t. They don’t jump into doing things because they want them to be possible. No wishful thinking here but sound research.
This does not mean they go along with the crowd. They evaluate things for themselves, do their homework and once they have the facts make their own decision. They get noticed because they made the effort to check out an opportunity that other people overlooked.
2. Create a plan for success.
Good results do not happen by chance. People who get a lot done have plans; doable, well-researched plans. They also have ways of measuring outcomes and monitoring their efforts to see if they are on track. This does not mean they give up every time they get behind schedule but they do know if they are headed in the right direction or not.
For most projects, these plans are written out in some detail. They have budgets for both time and money and they have criteria for evaluation.
3. Break that success plan up into manageable steps.
Getting out of debt does not generally happen because you get a sudden windfall of money. It happens a few dollars at a time. The same thing holds true for other life goals.
Want a new better-paying job? There will be a series of steps you will need to do to get from where you are to having that job. Do them one thing at a time and if your research and planning were done well then you have a good chance of landing that big one.
4. Don’t set yourself up for failure.
One major cause of failure to get things accomplished is trying to do too much too fast. You decide to go back to school for a new degree, get a new job, lose weight and get in shape all in the same month.
All of these things are good goals. Over time you can get there, but trying to do too much at one time sets you up for failure. You won’t do well in school if you are out exercising. It is also hard to concentrate on exams if you are looking for a new job.
Break these projects up into small manageable steps. Make small changes in your routine. Monitor your progress and switch your emphasis to the next phase as you finish each thing.
5. Keep on the path to where you are going.
Excessive, frequent changes in goals are likely to undo all the effort you have made. Spend time evaluating goals before you start on the journey. At some point, it helps to recheck those plans. Some people do annual or even monthly reevaluations. But don’t change those plans from day-to-day without a good reason.
Switching goals from day-to-day ensure that you will not be successful at anything.
6. Enjoy the trip towards your version of success.
People who enjoy the process of exercising lose more weight. Find a form of exercise that you enjoy, maybe walking, maybe join a softball league. If you want to eat healthier consider learning to cook healthier.
If you enjoy the subject you are studying you get better grades. And if you like this new career you are more likely to get hired and do well. They can tell in the interview if you are only taking the job because you are desperate and will plan to leave the minute you can.
Follow these 6 steps. Pick a small goal, do the process and watch your progress. As one goal becomes a part of your normal routine add another until eventually, you can say you have built the life you want.
Do not make the mistake of thinking that happiness will come from having or accomplishing. True happiness is the result of the pride you will take in your progress along the way.
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